I was a cheater too…

Most women I’ve encountered can recall various instances of being cheated on and lied to. Okay, I’m no different but what I also like to share aside from my scars are the wounds I’ve inflicted on others.  Maybe it started with me being cheated on. That doesn’t matter, it didn’t give me the right toContinue reading “I was a cheater too…”

The other daughter…

I’m the other daughter. I’m the one that didn’t happen to be born in the cocoon of a happy marriage as my other siblings and I underwent a much more complex developmental process. I’m the “awkward situation” we dare not discuss, subject to statements like “Oh I didn’t know he had a daughter this old”.Continue reading “The other daughter…”

99 cent love

His love was cheap Like a bright red sign that alluded to a great purchase only to leave you with a knockoff version of what you truly wanted He spoke of a love that he couldn’t show It was tender, caring and deceptive It was a love that lent it’s kindness to a soul inContinue reading “99 cent love”

So you think you’re the one?! (Day 37 – 100 Days of Singleness)

Most people LOVE the chase… A person will pursue you to the ends of the earth just for the thrill of the chase. We have to be careful not to mistake persistence with destiny. Not everyone that desires you, deserves you. A man that isn’t led by God should not be expected to lead you.Continue reading “So you think you’re the one?! (Day 37 – 100 Days of Singleness)”

No more locked doors!!! – Pursuing Purity (Day 26 – 100 Days of Singleness)

I know he/ she is no good for me but… Stop right there! Anything that follows this phrase is a sorry excuse of a reason to stay and you know it. I know as the song says, “he ain’t no good but it feels so good”. I know and have experienced the pleasure of sin,Continue reading “No more locked doors!!! – Pursuing Purity (Day 26 – 100 Days of Singleness)”