Fallen crown… 👑 

Many beautiful love stories and fables begin with “once upon a time” and then there’s some climax and triumph of love that leads to the inevitable and oh so misleading “happily ever after”.  Forget romance, forget the knight in shining armor. Jesus already saved you, you don’t need a husband or boyfriend for that! ThisContinue reading “Fallen crown… 👑 “

Here’s why you’re not healed…

You don’t want to be. Now before you go on explaining how hard it it and how many times you’ve tried, I get it. But I also get that you’ve stopped trying. You’ve grown so attached to your hurt, you believe it to be a part of who you are. It’s not.  Just because youContinue reading “Here’s why you’re not healed…”

To the other women…

I’m so sorry that I blamed you for the men that cheated.

I’m sorry that I called out your promiscuity rather than my own fear and insecurity.

I’m sorry that I was just another source of pain for you, that I allowed my own hurt to cut you with my words.

A heart like yours! (Day 72 – 100 Days of Singleness)

Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, And in sin my mother conceived me. (‭Psalms‬ ‭51‬:‭5‬ NASB) Being born again, means a rebirthing from our old sinful nature into a glorious and majestic being of love. We cannot serve Christ until we learn to love like Him. Hide Your face from my sins And blotContinue reading “A heart like yours! (Day 72 – 100 Days of Singleness)”

Harlot to Help Meet (Day 63 – 100 Days of Singleness)

And behold, a woman comes to meet him, Dressed as a harlot and cunning of heart. She is boisterous and rebellious, Her feet do not remain at home; “Come, let us drink our fill of love until morning; Let us delight ourselves with caresses. With her many persuasions she entices him; With her flattering lipsContinue reading “Harlot to Help Meet (Day 63 – 100 Days of Singleness)”

No more locked doors!!! – Pursuing Purity (Day 26 – 100 Days of Singleness)

I know he/ she is no good for me but… Stop right there! Anything that follows this phrase is a sorry excuse of a reason to stay and you know it. I know as the song says, “he ain’t no good but it feels so good”. I know and have experienced the pleasure of sin,Continue reading “No more locked doors!!! – Pursuing Purity (Day 26 – 100 Days of Singleness)”

Sacred speech…. or secret sabotage??? ( Day 13 – 100 Days of Singleness)

I’ll let the scripture speak…. “…..For I have heard the whispering of many, “Terror on every side! Denounce him; yes, let us denounce him!” All my trusted friends, Watching for my fall, say: “Perhaps he will be deceived, so that we may prevail against him And take our revenge on him.” (Jeremiah 20:9, 10 NASB)Continue reading “Sacred speech…. or secret sabotage??? ( Day 13 – 100 Days of Singleness)”

Day 1: Clean Texting Challenge, keep it friendly! (100 days of Singleness)

Okay cut off the love songs, put the ice cream back in the freezer and DO NOT text him! He’s not the one and you know it, he wasn’t even a good one to begin with. Don’t let your loneliness commit you to another moment in a wrong relationship! For the next 7 days weContinue reading “Day 1: Clean Texting Challenge, keep it friendly! (100 days of Singleness)”